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pallyjones  

REQUEST FOR LIFE

Dear Sir/Madam
Greetings, Me and my family are farmers located in one of the most remote and rugged regions of Himalayas in India where there are no access to roads or transportations. Our home and fields are situated over the mountain approx. 3500 feet above sea level where the weather is unpredictable which makes farming very hard and life unbearable. All the farm work is done manually by hand by the members of my family. We normally grow garlic in small quantities which we sell to sustain the family for a whole year. As there are no access to roads we have to carry the loads on our backs at times 50 to 80 KG to access the nearest road which is couple of hours down the mountain and is a back breaking process. Even to get small food items we have to be going through this exercise everyday for our survival. Our everyday diet consist of five or six rotis (wheat flour and water mixed and roasted like a pancake) with mostly dal (gravy made out of pulse) with occasional rice two times a day. At times we collect wild vegetables from nearby forest to supplement our diet. Because of lack of nutrition our health conditions also suffer many times in a year. Here even today babies are born in the house. Birth is supervised by one of the older village woman as there are no doctors or any qualified medical people. In cases of emergency we have to carry the patient on our back to the road and any medical attention can be gotten 15 kms further down the road. This has resulted in many deaths in past years with young and old.
Since last two years due to changing weather conditions and untimely rainfall our fields could not yield crops properly. We are poor farmers just scrapping through life trying to stay alive. Added to these problems last year three of my family members one of whom is a six month old baby had deteriorating health conditions which needed hospitalisation and medicines which cost us major portion of the money we could earn by selling our crop. Normally we earn about 50,000 INR in a year by selling garlic and we grow small quantities of wheat and corn enough to keep the family through the year. Due to these sufferings and extra expenditure am now in great distress to be even able to buy seeds to grow crop in our field to sustain ourselves. To have one morsel of food has become a nightmare for all of us and we are nine members in the family with two small babies of 8 months and two years. The future of our survival looks very bleak given the conditions and lack of health and finance to tend the field.
I would be highly grateful if your goodselves would consider me and my family a worthy cause to extend your help to us with 5000 USD which I can use to buy necessary seeds for the crops, few essential medications, a mule for transportation, fix the leaking roof of our home, do little maintenance to our field for yielding more crop and get me, my family andour field back on track as our field is the only source of our survival. My family consist of myself, my sick wife, two sons and two daughters, 2 small babies and a daughter in law. I can provide you with my family snap, address and bank account details upon your heart permitting to help me as whatever I have stated above is genuine and true. Me and my family are seeking this help not because we are lazy but because of protracted and extreme conditions beyond our control which we have been facing since two years continuously under the circumstances outlined above. We need a helping hand to get back on our feet again as your generosity would go a long way in alleviating the sufferings of my family and bring life back into our lives.
Awaiting your kindness and response to pally(underscore)jones at yahoo dot com
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VTMarkus  

inspiration support manifesting dreams

I'm passed the halfway mark with the creation of my book, 'Coming Home to the Heart of Nature'. In order to continue working on it I need to solicit the support of some benevolent soul who believes in my project as much as I do. Alas, at this point I have no rich uncles or wealthy friends who can help to support my modest lifestyle for the next couple of months, which is what it will take for me to pull all of the pieces together for a final product...
If you or someone you know is philanthropically inclined, I'd really enjoy hearing from you. I don't see my book so much as a self-rewarding pursuit as it is a gift to a movement-crazed culture that needs to re-discover the peace and tranquility of the natural world. Promo as part of my website at www.quietlightvermont.com/book/
Thank you for your consideration
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VTMarkus  

The dream is alive, but gasping...

Making reasonable progress on my book project (www.quietlightvermont.com/book/ ) and trying to maintain trust in the universe that this is what I'm meant to be doing with my life at the moment. That's challenging when I'm setting a new record for personal insolvency...
Any angels out there? Hello?
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simia  

please help

I need help getting a good car for me to drive my husband back and forth to appointment after he gets out. he lost half a leg and some toes
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mary123  

Aidpage Open Letter: Child support Laws

To the attention of:

US Senators from Pennsylvania: Patrick J. Toomey, Robert P. Jr. Casey;
US Representatives from Pennsylvania: Allyson Y. Schwartz, Bill Shuster, Chaka Fattah, Charles W. Dent, Christopher P. Carney, Glenn Thompson, Jason Altmire, Jim Gerlach, Joseph R. Pitts, Kathleen A. Dahlkemper, Lou Barletta, Mark S. Critz, Michael F. Doyle, Michael G. Fitzpatrick, Patrick Meehan, Robert A. Brady, Tim Holden, Tim Murphy, Todd Russell Platts;
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HELLO MY NAME IS TINA AND I LIVE IN PHILADELPHIA I WANTED TO STATE THAT IAM VERY DISAPOINTED IN OUR LEGAL SYSTEM. mY CHILD SUPPORT IS OVER 6,OOO IN AREARS AND I CANT GET Any help Ive been down to court number of thimes. my x husbands spousal support order in Deleware County iss being covered first. thats against supreme court rule. Not Only that sh hadme arrested and lyed on stand. because I live in Phi;ladelphia i feel things are getting worse do i need to move to a different dtst.

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Post Open Letter to your Elected Representatives

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idnic  

online grief support

I found a wonderful site that has chat rooms for people who are grieving a loss of a loved one. I had been going to this site for about a month now but never got up enough guts to chat. But Yesterday was the 3 month anniversary of my husbands death. Between that and Thanksgiving I could not stop sobbing. I was at the end of my rope and feeling totally overwhelmed so I mustered up my strength and chatted. At first I couldn't see the computer screen through my tears but within 15 minutes I felt so much better and not so all alone. This site is called GROWW and the url is www.groww.org they have different rooms that focus on different types of loss such as loss of children, recently widowed, loss to suicide, etc. It really does help to be with others who really know what you are going through. I regret waiting so long to chat but am so grateful that people are willing to share.
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prettysweet  

any

Hi my name is CierraNorris and i'm a single mother taking care of my daughter but it alittle hard when your having money problems i'v always had a job i worked as soon as i was old enough, i'm trying to further my career in medical but its hard i cant even get my baby x-mas and thats sad i jus wish there was someone out there to help
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Anonymous  

Verizon Supports Hoosier Nonprofits With $400,000

Verizon Supports Hoosier Nonprofits With $400,000: Struggling Domestic Violence Agencies Receive More Than Half Of Grant Funds

November 4, 2011 by admin

Verizon announced today its commitment to Indiana nonprofits with donations amounting to more than $400,000 and more than half of the grant money dedicated to struggling domestic violence agencies.

“We know domestic violence agencies and shelters are hurting now and we’ve stepped up to meet the needs of families that they serve across Indiana,” said John Granby, president–Indiana/Kentucky/Michigan Region, Verizon Wireless. “We don’t ever want a shelter to be forced to turn people away.”

From cash grants to employee matches, Verizon remains committed to helping as many agencies as possible in Indiana.

Just this summer, a number of organizations reported a spike in domestic violence calls for help brought on by the pressure of a souring economy. Agencies began struggling with waiting lists at shelters and extended stays and also experienced increased calls for help to crisis hotlines.

“An organization like ours could not continue with the outreach that we do without support from committed partners like Verizon,” said Melissa Pershing, executive director of The Julian Center, one of the state’s largest domestic violence programs. “Verizon’s grant is helping us bring families that have been impacted by domestic violence out of poverty and into financial self-sustainability through nationally recognized programs such as Circles of Support and Bridges out of Poverty.”

Funding comes from the Verizon Foundation and through the nationally recognized HopeLine® program from Verizon Wireless. At Indiana’s 36 company-owned retail stores and through pre-paid mail options, Hoosiers can easily donate no longer used phones and accessories to the HopeLine program.

Verizon provides those refurbished wireless phones and airtime to nonprofit organizations for use by domestic violence survivors, as well as cash grants to local shelters and nonprofits that focus on prevention, awareness and advocacy through those donations.

Last year, 731 phones and more than 2.1 million free minutes were contributed to Indiana shelter residents to make those connections.

“In the recent years of increased financial constraints on government and non-profit budgets, contributions from private sector sources like the Verizon Foundation have become even more important,” said Michelle Bumgarner, director of victim advocacy programs for the Indiana Attorney General’s office. “While our office assists survivors with services such as the Address Confidentiality Program, the financial support from community partners, like Verizon, helps make the essential and often life-saving work of local advocates and shelters possible.”

(The Address Confidentiality Program is a free service of the attorney general’s office that allows victims of domestic violence, sexual assault or stalking to maintain a confidential address.)

Across Indiana, 19 domestic violence organizations are being supported by Verizon, including the following in central Indiana:

Domestic Violence Network of Greater Indianapolis
Indiana Coalition Against Domestic Violence
The Julian Center
Muslim Alliance of Indiana
Salvation Army
Sheltering Wings Center for Women

“With Verizon’s support, we were able to help 317 Hoosiers who have suffered from domestic violence—including 203 children—escape from a violent situation,” said Susan Solomon, divisional services director for the Salvation Army in Indiana. “Our Emergency Bed Space Program was developed to ensure that when traditional shelter spaces in Indianapolis are full, those fleeing from violence will still have a safe place to go. Without this program, these individuals would have been forced to remain in a violent situation, live in their car or try to access a potentially unsafe situation.”

Verizon is also reminding its more than 500 Indiana employees to give during this time of escalated need. The Verizon Foundation supports personal philanthropic giving made by Verizon employees and retirees. Employees can earn cash grants for the qualified nonprofits where they volunteer at least 50 hours, and can have their charitable donations go further by utilizing the foundation’s Matching Gifts Programs.

“The need is great and the time is now,” Granby said. “We’re asking everyone in our company to step up during Domestic Violence Awareness Month this October, and we hope others follow our lead.”
http://indysocialservices.org/
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NAMIMB  

FREE CLASS OFFERS FAMILIES EDUCATION, SUPPORT AND HOPE

Greetings from NAMI Metropolitan Baltimore ,

NAMI Metropolitan Baltimore, Inc (NAMI-MB) is a grassroots, family-oriented support, education and advocacy organization founded in 1981. NAMI offers opportunities for family members and individuals with mental illness to gain balance and rebuild lives devastated by mental illness. Through peer support groups, education, and advocacy we promote a greater understanding of mental illness. In addition to support groups in Pikesville and Baltimore , we currently have free education courses for family members of individuals diagnosed with a mental illness.

Family to Family Education Program

Family-to-Family is a free 12-week course for close relatives of individuals with severe brain disorders (mental illnesses). Trained family members teach the course. All course materials are furnished to participants at no cost. The curriculum discusses the clinical treatment of major mental illnesses and teaches the knowledge and skills that family members need to cope more effectively. The commitment is two and one half hours per week for twelve weeks. It is essential that participants attend all 12 classes because each class builds on the prior class. Registration is required.


A..- Start Date: Thursday, September 1st , 2011 from 7:00 PM – 9:30 PM End Date: November 17th, 2011

Location: St. Luke Lutheran Church, 7001 Harford Rd , Parkville , MD 21234



B.- Start Date: Tuesday, October 4th, 2011 from 7:00 PM - 9:30 PM End Date: December 20th , 2011

Location: Govans Boundary United Methodist Church , 5210 York Rd , Baltimore , MD 21212
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hlpdmnynwindit  

thank you....

Was very ill all week long....pneumonia..caused by my sickle cell. I have had the vaccine but still get p.eumonia mayb 6-10x a tear???? Why? Idk. I had to deal with it at home because no ride to the hospital! Im better some, but anyway...i thank all of you who sent me dm,em in my support...thank you! Alot of what you all say, is sooo true and is clearly a blessing for me. This site is very inspiring i love all of you! Thanks again....and.....how has everyone else been doing?

Ps....if anyone know anyone that may be selling a. Vehicle...van..car...truck...mayb they are not in need of it anymore or just need it off there land(taking up space).it runs and drives and can get me back and forth to my doc appts, and hosp visits...please refer me and or let me knoww. My fam is willing to raise money to help me get transportation, but it cant be to expensive maybe even if someone can donate, or be able to accept bout 3to400 dollars. PLEASE!!!! i am praying and hoping. Because another week and a half like i just experienced...i dont want!
I have been lookin on sites like craigslist but a lil afraid,and its not much for my price range, but some people have cars thats been sitting for years and just saving for sentimental reasons, or just on case something happens...but when you bless another God surely Bless you! Thank you so muvh for even listening and offering listening ears. God Bless You All.
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Angels Over All  

MY BLESSINGS!!!!!

Hey family How r u all!!!! I have been very bless! my modeling & Talk shows r going very well, so u will be seeing a lot of me on TV Very soon!!!!!
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k1974elvis  

Long Island based social group for people with Lupus and other autoimmune disorders

www.longislandlupusgroup.weebly.com
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removed  

National Prayer Center

National Prayer Center

The National Prayer Center was established in 1994 to provide a call center and receiving point for requests from people seeking help through prayer. Since its establishment, millions of calls and requests have come to the 1-800-4-PRAYER phone line.

The center is open 24/7 and is available for everyone regardless of religion, or need. It is a wonderful way to seek help through prayer any time you need it. Everything is anonymous, and it is free. The only thing you have to do is make the call and let your request be known, and someone will pray with you.

1-800-4-PRAYER   /  (1-800-477-2937)


GOD BLESS

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Angels Over All  

The Efforts of a MOM!

Today was Parent Teachers Conferences, I am so Proud of my Children. I have gotten glowing reports on how well behave they are & how I did such an awesome job with them. They all made honor roll! not bad for a mom of 9 with 2 older children that graduated with honors out of high school & 7 more following in their foot steps. Yes, yes, yes! I am TRULY BLESS! And I can say it was all done by me & gods hand:)
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stephyy2020  

unfaithful turn

i hate to say im at my lowest or that that i have no where to turn. i hate to say i am only 18 and struggling to even get a job to support myself, but sadly i am. my life has took a turn for the worst being abandoned by my father after moving up here and having to rely on my boyfriends parents for shelter and aids which wont be lasting for long. i don't know where else to turn i can even buy a product worth 2 dollars thats how broke i am. i am in major debt and have no idea what to do. moving out of my house at 17 i cant say was a good thing but was better than living there.
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God children  

Need Help and support for financing

Hello! My name is Vina. I am HIV/Aid DX. I have no family and support me when I needed, struckgle with pay bills every month. do to fixed income. No car to go visit Dr. clinic, take a city bus, wait for a bus to come every hours schedual each bus rounting. I believe that angel watching over me, and will bring a Blessing to me. Thank you and God Bless you all.

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Anonymous  

About braydinsmom

My name is Ashley i am 20 years old. I got pregnant when I was 18 years old in september

of 2009 i gave birth to my son Braydin, sense then my life turned around

completly. I am the happiest stay at home mom you will ever meet. My son is the coolest person i have

ever met on this earth. There is nothing i have ever enjoyed more than being a mom

evin if i started at a young age :D.  I am engaged to Braydins father Aaron and we have been together

for 5 years now. We plan to get married one day when we have the money to do so.

Im hoping to save enough money to start beauty school one day until then i am

just charishing every second i have with my son an not missing a moment : D

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mrsdraper  

feeling a little better

ok..i would like to make it clear that i am NOT an alcoholic..i feel like i am even if i have one beer..but i dont want to be that way so i want to get help before that ever gets to that point.im now on zoloft for my depression so hopefully i can stop blaming myself for everthing thats wrong in this world.i would like to thank everone for there support through this rough patch.thank you all and god bless you very much =)
~christina

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CATLUV  

The Aidpage Motto: People Helping People - Let's return to: Community, Compassion, Support, Responsibility and Acceptance

Aidpage motto: "People Helping People" --- Everyone struggles and has problems ... everyone has a story, and no one person knows exactly what it's like to be "you," except you. We each have our very own unique journeys, which are full of both good stuff and bad stuff, and it's simply unfair to compare one person's life struggles to another's, as they are all different, not to mention, equally as real and important.

With so much chaotic and negative energy in this world right now, the best thing we can do for ourselves and others is to show compassion, understanding and avoid placing judgement. We may never be able to step into another's body, mind and life, but trying to look at things, and people, from different perspectives, may go along way in supporting one another during a time that feels so difficult.

Story time ... I am the first to admit that I can get angry when I drive, and this is something I have been working on calming and improving for many years now. We've all experienced other drivers operating their own vehicles in reckless, careless, and less than intelligent ways ... and since we share the road, other's actions and inactions affect us on some level or another, even if it's just two slow moving vehicles blocking traffic. I know that I am not alone when I say that there are times when I have become frustrated, undone, angry or plain peeved with others on the road, but when someone does something and acknowledges it, and gives that "I'm sorry" wave, my frustration melts away. I am being completely truthful when I say that I have always practiced this courtesy ... if I've done something stupid and affected another driver, I give that wave, as we all make mistakes, whether it's driving related or not. With all that said, I was driving home one night after a long and emotionally draining emergency room visit, when my inattention caused me to piss off a fellow driver. They displayed some road rage even with my apology. That's when it clicked for me: Every single human being on this earth is living their own life and have their own problems which affect them in ways that many other's may not understand. I began to think about all the times I ever became angry or frustrated with another driver and how I did not put any thought into the fact that any given person may be dealing with something beyond that of the time spent to get from location a to b. The thing is, we don't know ... That driver who cut you off, the one who is speeding, or that one car traveling below the speed limit and blocking traffic could very well be occupied by a person who just lost a family member, someone embroiled in a nasty divorce, custody battle or infidelity, or someone who was just given a diagnosis of terminal cancer, you never know.
... Unfortunately, we all experience such things, and I don't understand why we can't give each other more slack, acceptance and forgiveness.

The point? We are all human. And to be a human, is to be flawed. We all know how good it feels to have someone validate, relate and understand our individual struggles, and we are thankful when someone shows us kindness and support over that of judgement and criticism.
People Helping People ...

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SilentlyStewing  

About SilentlyStewing

I left an abusive marriage, albeit after trying to fix things for a long time.  I moved out with my 16 yo son.  Upon going to court, my ex even admitted to using drugs, losing his job and not being there for the past several years as he lived in another town and the judge gave him primary custody.  He says half truths in court, he has our son tell half truths, I have no option to rebut this stuff and I keep being treated like I'm the one who didn't obey the law, like I'm a terrible mother, when I did everything, sacrificied everything to do what was right for our kids while my husband apparently was out spending money on drugs.  Now, I'm faced with paying child support for being a good mother.  I'm faced with only seeing my son on the 2nd and 4th weekends of the month.  I didn't do anything wrong other than take the physical, emotional and ethical abuse to try to keep a family together and now I'm the victim again.  I can't find a support group to talk to.  I have a lawyer and he's doing his best but the judge takes everything my lying ex tells her as gospel.  She can't see that our son is being manipulated by the things my ex says, she admonishes me for doing things I'm not doing and when I took proof to court that my son is failing in 3 classes in his 1 st semester of junior year in high school since he's been with his dad, I'm the bad person cause I didn't get hold of this information before and tell someone.  How do you keep dealing with such pain and abuse without blowing up?  How can I get someone who will fight for me?  for what is right, for the truth?  I'm being penalized because I told the truth and obeyed the law.  What is wrong with this country and its legal system.  My 16yo son is being taught that lying, using drugs and cheating the system is the way to do things instead of being with me where I can teach him good moral values.  I hurt so badly and can't explain this to anyone who can do anything about it.

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